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To those who celebrate.

I've had a good day. Spent most of it chatting with folks, cooking, and watching the Thanksgiving Parade and The Connors.

Zoom Chat
Mother and I had a long chat this morning, and bro and I texted each other.
Extended family Zoom chat at 2 pm went well - and was sort of cool, considering we were all chatting by video feed on Zoom from various corners of the United States: Tampa, Florida (Aunt K's group - the priest, her sister Aunt M, Aunt M's hubby's great aunt, and of course Aunt K - all sitting in her house evenly spaced with the windows open, fans on, and masks on (except for uncle and great Aunt. Aunt M and Aunt K are former nurses.) Chicago, Ill - (Aunt L, Uncle P (the artists/writers), cousin H, and her family - she hosted), Seattle, Washington (Cousin J who works for Microsoft and had formerly worked with Jeff Bestos at a new rocket company), Novato, California (Aunt C and D), and West Chester, PA (Uncle D and Aunt J).

So I talked to people in Florida, California, Illinois, Pennsylvania, and Washington simultaneously. Gotta love technology. Cousin J apparently loved working with Jeff Bestos (my family and coworkers adore Amazon and has had nothing but pleasant experiences - the only people who appear to hate it - are online friends and church friends...who weirdly like the evil Walmart and Barnes & Nobel. Mileage? It varies.)

Also was able to clear up two mysteries.Read more... )

Overall the chat went well. Texas contingent dropped out at the last minute.
Mother asked if they were pleased I joined - I honestly don't know, nor care. I was invited, I came.

Thanksgiving Dinner

The flowers (roses and day lilies) my father sent me are still going strong. I changed the water, and trimmed the stems again, and got rid of the blooms that had kind of completed their arc.

I cooked a game hen - possibly a bit too long, although still good. I might have overcompensated. Last year - I'd under-cooked it. So was wary. Also now they provide single hens, instead of two in a package - which I'm very pleased by. I split them in half, and have one half tonight, and one tomorrow. For sides? I got stuff from Foodkick and heated them up in the microwave - green beans with garlic, roasted root vegetables, and quinoa. Sauce? White wine, citris, honey, fresh rosemary, and the neck, heart and liver of the bird.

Now, I'm heating up my pie. While my brother and niece were happy to have made their first pies. (I bought a frozen gluten free pumpkin pie from Main Pies.)

The rain ended, the clouds cleared, and it turned into a beautiful day in the 60s. One of the warmer Thanksgivings to date.

The parade while odd, was not that different. It focused more on minority dance presentations. The marching bands weren't in evidence. And everything was pretty much New York based. But there were still decent floats, balloons and musical performances - from Broadway casts, and various commercial products. Missing were the crowds, the audience, and of course the marching bands.



I'm feeling very grateful and thankful at the moment. For what I have, and for not losing any of it.

2020 has been a hellish year, I'm very grateful for what I have.
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I may not make it through 60 days of this...

The prompt is What Thanksgiving Memory Are You Grateful For?

I'm grateful for the memory of making Thanksgiving Dinner one year for my father, mother, and grandmother. My brother and his partner (later wife) were in California at the time (I think). Mother wasn't supposed to be making dinner due to skin cancer surgery - she had a place removed from her nose - it was nothing, I don't know why she couldn't do it. It was also basil cell - which is easy to eradicate. No lasting damage. But whatever.

I remember them both, mother and grandmother hovering. Three generations of women in a small kitchen. It's a memory I treasure to this day - particularly when my grandmother taught me to make the pies, but I kicked her out so I could make my own cranberry sauce.

My father watched football, falling asleep in his chair. When he wasn't outside raking leaves.

It was ages ago. And a treasured memory, along with many others. I'm grateful to have so many positive memories of Thanksgiving. I've done it with friends, family, immediate and otherwise over the years.
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The fun part of these challenges will be to see how often Shadowkat miscounts or loses track of which day it is. I almost put day 7.

I didn't like the prompt. So I'm making up my own.

A song that you are grateful for

Brave by Sara Bareilles

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The prompt is Name a food that you are grateful for.

Power Salad greens specifically uncooked spinach, rainbow chard, and argula, also mustard greens.

Why? They are good source of fiber, protein, and vitamin A - also easy to put together in a quick salad. So a salad of spinach greens, green onion or red onion, white or red raddish, cucumber, and another protein of my choice.
Dressing? lemon juice, and maybe some olive oil. Trick to making it flavorful is putting in just the right mixture of salad greens, and toppings.

Rest of the days are HERE.

I'm doing this meme to help keep my head above water and stave off depression. I don't really care if anyone else does it. ;-)
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The prompt is What Technology are you most grateful for?

The computer that I'm typing on at the moment.

History of Computers - a Brief Timeline

timeline of the computers up to the Macbook Pro )

My uncle John was involved in the creation of the first computers and the early internet in the 1950s through 1980s.

I'm thankful for:

1. Spellcheck - since I suck at spelling
2. Connections with others who'd I'd never have met
3. Easy access to fans of shows and things I've enjoyed over the years
4. The ability to work remotely from home during a pandemic
5. The ability to write, edit and self-publish a novel remotely
6. Email
7. Ability to order things online
8. Ability to apply for an absentee ballot and have it sent to me, and have its progress tracked.
9. Ability to chat and do zoom worship services and bible study along with MS Teams meetings, without having to meet in person
10. The ability to watch videos, read webcomics, check the weather and have access to information around the world.

Rest of the days are HERE.
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Day 1 of 60 Days of Gratitude.

The prompt is Name something that happened today that you are grateful for

The Right to VOTE - I learned today that my absentee ballot was deemed valid and has been counted in the US Election.

So..I am grateful for

1. the Women's Suffrage Movement

that

2. enacted the 19th Amendment granting Women the Right to Vote.

3. The Governor signing an order that granted New Yorkers the ability to vote by absentee ballot.

4. Receiving my ballot in October, before the deadline.

5. The ability to mail in the ballot in without any problems and a reliable mail service.

6. A ballot tracking site - that informed me today of when it was mailed, received and deemed valid. It was deemed received and valid on October 30.

As a result, I could vote in a safe and secure manner.

Here's the tracking site for New York.

Other days, which may or may not change without notice.

Prompts I'll use for the next 60 days )
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Ursula Le Quinn posted a lovely bit on 11/9 Election on her blog. It resonated for me and calmed me.

Here's a snippet:


I know what I want. I want to live with courage, with compassion, in patience, in peace.

The way of the warrior fully admits only the first of these, and wholly denies the last.

The way of the water admits them all.

The flow of a river is a model for me of courage that can keep me going — carry me through the bad places, the bad times. A courage that is compliant by choice and uses force only when compelled, always seeking the best way, the easiest way, but if not finding any easy way still, always, going on.

The cup of water that gives itself to thirst is a model for me of the compassion that gives itself freely. Water is generous, tolerant, does not hold itself apart, lets itself be used by any need. Water goes, as Lao Tzu says, to the lowest places, vile places, accepts contamination, accepts foulness, and yet comes through again always as itself, pure, cleansed, and cleansing.

Running water and the sea are models for me of patience: their easy, steady obedience to necessity, to the pull of the moon in the sea-tides and the pull of the earth always downward; the immense power of that obedience.

I have no model for peace, only glimpses of it, metaphors for it, similes to what I cannot fully grasp and hold. Among them: a bowl of clear water. A boat drifting on a slow river. A lake among hills. The vast depths of the sea. A drop of water at the tip of a leaf. The sound of rain. The sound of a fountain. The bright dance of the water-spray from a garden hose, the scent of wet earth.



Happy Thanksgiving for those who live in the United States and celebrate.

My own celebration will be rather low-key and small. Just me. I'm making rock cornish game hen, cauliflower rice, and yellow/green beans, I think. With Clean Slate - a German White Ryseling, and Gluten-Free Pumpkin Pie and whipped cream for desert. Simple, low key.

It's a gloomy and cold day in NYC, watched a portion of the Thanksgiving Day Parade on the tv, until it began to annoy me.

I'm on the fence as to what to watch next. Either binge more Gilmore Girls, or flip to Good Girls Revolt. Maybe a movie or two via on-demand, or some of the tv shows that I have saved to the DVR such as Westworld and Poldark.

I may also spend a bit of time writing.

I'm thankful for the little things this year. My grandmother, long dead, once taught me that -- to be thankful for the tiny moments. Like having a really good cup of coco, or a nice piece of pie, or taking a lovely walk through the trees. Or sitting in your armchair, peacefully reading a book.

This year, I'm thankful for the moments I spent relaxing on beaches with family and friends. Chatting. Or watching fireworks explode above my head. Watching the flick, The Revenant, during a blizzard with a friend. Spending time in Martha's Vineyard and in Clearwater Florida. Walking through the Berkshires. Listening to my niece describe a large snail with a sense of wonder. The brisk and refreshing coolness of a mountain spring pool up in the Catskills on a hot summer day in mid-July with like-minded people and friends.

Everything else fades away. Life is just a collection of moments, good and bad, and indifferent. Scattered like little pools of reflecting water. It's up to us which we wish to drown ourselves in or merely take a dip.
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Happy Thanksgiving to the Americans on my flist. Odd holiday. Turkey wasn't at the meal. And well, things didn't quite turn out as planned. But the holiday is more about the idea...than what happened.
And in some respects it goes back further than the Pilgrims...it's the last big harvest before the long winter, where light slowly recedes, and in some places doesn't peek out again until Spring.

I'm staying home this year. Slept in. Watching the ad-a-plooza otherwise known as the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade. (And the musical performances are truly bad this year - I cringed during Spiderman: Turn on the Night. Not a show you'd see for the musical performances. The best, was oddly, Daniel Radcliff in How to Succeed in Business - that guy has a massive career ahead of him. He's incredibly talented - which may explain in part why the Harry Potter movies worked so well. Casting is 90% of it, after all.) Been half-watching, most of the time - I've been Kindle book shopping on Amazon...found several cheap and brainless books. The only one I'll tell you about
is "The Night Circus" - about two competing magicians in a dangerous contest at the traveling and mystical Night Circus. The write-up makes me think of Ray Bradbury's Something Wicked this Way Comes married to Harry Potter and the Hunger Games. I'm intrigued. Also playing with Daughter of Smoke and Bone - but it may be too young for me. Too star-crossed.

Thanksgiving Dinner is going to be:

1.)Cornish Game Hen - takes about an hour and 30 minutes to cook. (Confession? I'm ambivalent regarding Turkey. It doesn't taste all that different than chicken. Also not a stuffing fan (possibly due to being celiac).) Will make it with an orange juice, butter and white wine basting sauce.

2. Wild Rice with dried cranberries

3. Green beans (I sometimes add almonds)

4. Gluten-free Pumpkin pie. (courtesy of Arrowhead Mills and a gluten free pre-made pie crust)

Have Crispin Hard Apple Cider to drink.

And in the DVD player? Harry Potter marathon.

For the books - a whole host of pulpy fluffy escapist romance novels that cost no more than 99 cents or in some cases no money at all on the Kindle. I love the Kindle - it is perfect for cheap, guilty pleasure reads. And I need a break from George RR Martin's incredibly grim Feast of Crows. I kid you not, when I say that the tv series is cheerier. Although to be honest Game and Storm were lighter than this book. I'm only half-way through...and I feel bludgoned by flashbacks of rapes, gruesome deaths, and hopelessness. If you are at all depressed or frustrated by life? Don't read Martin.

Oh this is a fun dance routin from New Orleans by Ordinary Guys dancing to I Need a Hero. They are all overweight. And in shorts. Every time I watch this parade I wonder if they've put up heat lamps around the performance area. I don't believe so. It's always cold...37 degrees. But hey at least sunny! And no rain or clouds! A lovely, if crisp day for a parade, with little wind.

This year I'm thankful for the following: 1)being alive. 2)healthy (no sprains or breaks), 3) a good job, 4) rent stablized flat. 5) nice church. 6) parents being okay
7) on good terms with everyone in my family, 8)my livejournal...which continues to be a place where I can write and communicate with people around the world. 9) various entertainment resources and a wide variety of books, tv shows, and movies. (I have Fringe, Harry Potter, and Veronica Mars DVDs to watch. Hee.)

My life is pretty good for the most part. It helps to be reminded of that.
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