Crush is admittedly a dark episode with some cringe-worthy moments. But it is also a character turning point. When Spike actually does declare his love...but does it in a characteristically twisted manner, with Dru goading him on.

I love the episode for the character moments. And it has some great ones.
It delves into Spike's psychology.

My problem with the Gift is ...well it is sort of silly. The whole plan is dumb. And there's far too much time with Dawn/Glory and Ben. The season enders outside of maybe Becoming, always felt campy and over the top to me.

There's subtle touches to Crush and the blend of music and character...is interesting. Plus, I admittedly adore Drusilla. But I also haven't watched the episode in a long time. I may feel differently now. Memory tends to make things better than they actually are.